It is 3am the morning that we will be getting Sophia. I am soooo excited and have anticipated this day for so long. I wonder what she will be like, look like, and who she will prefer. We have been told by our facilitator that it is VERY likely that she will choose one of us to prefer and completely avoid the other, this is a normal and expected reaction by most babies in this situation. We have been told that the babies are typically one of three ways
* VERY upset (cries for 3 days or so)
* Happy and indifferent, but prefers one parent over the other
* sullen with a blankish look and distant (attachment is more of a challenge)
What will miss Sophia be? Maybe she will be the 4th way that has not been created yet, she certainly seems like a girl with a mind of her own (hmmm, who does that sound like).
I am going to try to get a little more sleep so I can be ready for this bundle of joy........ 6 hours!!!!
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